Proverbs 15:4

Scripture: 

Proverbs 15:4  “A soothing tongue is a tree of life, But perversion in it crushes the spirit.” (NASB)

Observation:

Communicating and speaking to each other has taken on a form that seems to be getting worse by the day. Disrespect and verbal assaults seem to be the way to speak to each other. Trash talking on the sports field, students disrespecting teachers, children speaking back to their parents, where will it end? Most of you know that I had a serious anger problem that resulted in a verbal assault against some innocent person (usually my wife).

Sad. As I look back, I see the damage that I did. I see how my words cut her down. I would apologize for my actions, and then want her to believe me when I told her I loved her. The damage had been done. I praise God for the lesson He taught me. How it was unacceptable behavior and that my words need to be more like His words. Our words speak the truth with love, share love, and be uplifting. Isn’t there enough sadness and pain in the world without us adding to it by selfish attacks by our words? Take a moment before you speak today and ask one question, “Will this hurt or help?” 

Application:

1) Think about what you just read.

2) Ask the Holy Spirit for clarity and insight.

3) Share this with someone who would benefit from reading it.

4) Make sure others see Jesus in YOU today.

TOM SEMBER has been involved in ministering to men for over 20 years. He is an ordained minister with the AG in the NY Ministry Network. Tom lives with his wife, Carolyn, and children in New York. You can connect with Tom on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn.